Captivating Attractive Women - Hints For Single Men

Most men I know are not really just interested in learning how to attract women. Alternatively, they are more likely to desire to learn what they can do to start seducing attractive girls. After all, what happens to you when you spot a gorgeous girl walk by? For many men, they usually end up freezing up, not knowing what to say and do. Or, they try to make an have a shot at to entice her, only to get shot down pretty miserably. This is pretty common.

Here are some dating hints for men that will help you to begin attracting BEAUTIFUL women:

1. Freshen yourself up. You don't have to suddenly become one of those men that are more concerned with clothes and shoes than a female is. After all, you ARE a male. But, you do have to appear as yourself as a man that is clean cut. and seems to possess matters in order. A clean appearance gives off this impression pretty nicely.

2. Begin by on breaking the tension by making a woman feel good. When you walk to women, she has a few questions running around in her thoughts. One, she may think of if you are yet a random dude trying to get her to bed. And two, she wants to know if you are a creep, or a man that she can feel comfortable being in company of. So, she is feeling just as much tension as you are. Ease this tension by making her laugh.

3. Don't come right out and try to score with her. As I mentioned before, a pretty female is used to being approached by men that have the one intention of being deceptive to entice her. So, if you come across as being just more of the usual men, she is more than likely going to shoot you down.

 

4 Things to Keep in Mind When Captivating a Man

Four Things to Remember When Trying To Captivate a Man

First and foremost, clingy doesn't work. Second on the list (and could be interchanged with first) is needy. Clinging to a man's coat tail is a reflection of insecurity. You're scared that if you leave him alone too long, he will find someone else. Well, the truth is, if you don't give him the space to breathe, you will have the exact same result you were trying to avoid. He will find someone else.

Sex does not mean love. If you have sex with him too soon or the only interaction you have with him is sexual then there's no challenge for him. He doesn't have to put forth any effort into a relationship because he can have you whenever he calls (even at 3 a.m. when he's sloppy drunk). Men want a challenge. They want to chase, acquire and conquer their aspirations. If it's handed to them on a plate, he will clean the plate and throw it in the sink until he wants another feeding.

Remember that friendship doesn't always lead to relationship. You want to be a best friend to him and solve all his problems. You think that doing this will make him love you for the rest of his life. While you absolutely should be friendly, don't try to be his best friend. In the role of best friend, he will share all his thoughts with you including thoughts of other women that interest him. The painful part is you won't be one of those women you hear about.

So what is it that captivates him? It's just four little words: confident, emotionally secure women. Rejoice in the fact that you are an amazing woman. Be a woman that knows what she wants from life and actively pursues to achieve it. Keep your emotions in check. Be reasonable and rational on a level that he can relate. Remember that you are human; thus you are imperfect.

Recognize your shortcomings and make a plan to correct them. Allow him to recognize his own shortcomings and let him fix them. Know that you are an asset to any man and appreciate that he is lucky if you choose him to be in your life. Make the man a part of your life, not the entirety of your life. Live life with a sense of excitement and watch him seek your time.

 

Captivating. What a word. It means to attract and hold by charm, beauty or excellence. To hold the attention of by fascinating; enchant. An archaic definition is “to capture.” Tony Blair used the word. He said he found Princess Diana captivating. Quite a compliment from the former Prime Minister. It got me wondering. What makes a woman captivating? It certainly means the woman has a “special something” about them. I was always a Princess Diana fan. No doubt she captured the imagination of us all. She certainly was beautiful and glamorous. Is that all it takes to be captivating?

I think it surely must be more. Of course we all notice the outward appearance first. Yet no one could deny that Mother Theresa was also captivating, and she had no external beauty. I think to be captivating you must have internal fire. That spark of passion that runs deep. You also have to have heart, courage and a driving purpose. I suppose there are many individual characteristics that captivate. Some things I find captivating are strong moral character, intellect, imagination, curiosity, humor, passion, ambition, compassion, courage, heart, empathy, being well read, being a great conversationalist, being adventurous, liking to have fun, being glamorous. Is it acceptable to say beautiful eyes, a nice smile and being a good kisser are captivating too?

Do you know a captivating woman? If so count yourself lucky. They are a rare breed.